Depression and Sex - Talk About Marriage

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If for some reason that she feels that she is, in any way, inadequate to meet your visual, emotional, sexual, or financial needs~ then that can put a temporary roadblock up in her mind to even think about sex itself, much less performing.

Understanding the issue of depression can and will open many partners eyes to their loved ones view of their world.

First off let me clarify. Depressive and NOT automatically self harmers, in fact may will say they wished they didnt exist, this is different to I want to kill myself. The film A Wonderful Life " deals with a mans depression brought on by financial issues really well and has become my first referal point when asked about my issue.

As for sex. To want to have sex you have to feel good about yourslef and the world immeadiatley around you. Some depressive I repeat SOME will want to have sexual contact more than noremal, Why? The endorphines given off are the feel good factor chemical and they want to feel good.. Some people find it hard to want to be wanted and when you are trying to engage them in sexual stimilation their adrenalin/endorphine levels which carry some of "lets get at it feeling" are not firering at the same level as you, it may be also that something is on your W's mind that is blocking the sexy feeling. Depression is a chemical reaction in the brain and if interupted can and does block out many positive feelings - Part of getting your wifes labido back will require knowing what is triggering the "down feeling". Is there a health issue, is there a financial issue, is there stress issue which is triggering and holding her down. May be some light listening to her feelings will enlighten you more that anyone here can.
Good luck with it - dont give up on her

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Source: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/anxiety-depression-relationships/59614-depression-sex.html

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Swiss Chard Lemon Pasta Recipe | The Daily Meal

Credit: Amie Valpone

Fall reminds me of my high school soccer days when we had pasta parties every week before our games at a different home. So, I thought it'd be fun to relive those days, but with a little twist ? sans soccer and gluten.

Because we all need a lil' pasta in our lives. Don't you think? I mean, who doesn't love a hearty pasta dish when the weather starts to get a bit cooler and the leaves start to turn? It's that time of the year to pack up our gardens and pour the last of the fresh herbs into autumn dishes.

See all Swiss chard recipes.

INGREDIENTS

• 1 cup gluten-free penne
• 1 head Swiss chard, cut into 1/2-inch pieces
• 1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil
• 1/2 cup Kalamata olives
• 1/4 cup cilantro
• 2 scallions, sliced thinly
• 1 teaspoon apple cider vinegar
• 1 tablespoon lemon juice
• 1 teaspoon lemon zest
• 1/4 teaspoon smoked paprika
• 1/4 teaspoon sea salt
• 1/4 teaspoon freshly ground pepper

DIRECTIONS

Bring a large pot of water to a boil. Cook the penne according to the package directions. Remove from the heat, drain, and set aside.

Meanwhile, in a large skillet, cook the Swiss chard in olive oil over medium heat until wilted, about 4 minutes. Remove from the heat and transfer to a large serving bowl. Add the cooked penne, olives, cilantro, scallions, vinegar, lemon juice, lemon zest, smoked paprika, sea salt, and pepper and gently toss to combine. Serve warm.

Source: http://www.thedailymeal.com/swiss-chard-lemon-pasta

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